Samkshepa Dharma Shastra
XIII. Pakshinyaasoucham
(Taint for one and half days)
1. Samgraha:
In case of death of the sister of the mother, daughters, father's
brother's daughter, Sister's daughter, Father's sister, Brother's
daughter, Daughter's daughter, Daughter of the son,for the men and
woman there is Pakshini Asoucha (Taint for 36 hours) i. e. one
night with two days only.
This taint comes due to sharing the same womb. There is no
Pakshini Asoucha in case of birth.
Gowathama says that this taint is not there in case of mother's
sister. There is only bath. Also there is no taint in case of the
death of son of mother's sister or his wife.
All taints of the husband are shared by their wives but husband
does not share all taints of his wife.
In case of the death of Father's brother, his son and daughter,
Father's sister, her son and daughter, mother's elder and younger
sisters. Their sons and daughters, mother's parents, sister, her
son and daughter, brother's daughter, son's daughter, father's
mother, father, daughter's daughter the taint is there for the
concerned woman and not her husband.
XIV. Eka Dina Asoucham
(One day taint)
In case of the death of the step mother's brother, sister,
daughter, their daughters, sons, brother in laws, parents, son of
the other wife of the father, his son and daughter, Binna
Pithruvyaya's sister (?), her son and daughter, the man concerned
has one day taint. In case of the death of the step mother's
brother, sister, their children, grand children, step mother's
parents, step mother's son, his son and daughter there is one day
taint for the concerned lady. This taint is not applicable to her
husband.
XV. Anekasoucha Sannipathe Asoucha Karma
(Rules of taint, when more than one taint comes).
1. Parasara:
When one is observing a ten day taint, suppose another taint
comes, this would end on the day that, the first taint ends. This
is true for taint due to birth or death.
2. Devala:
When the ten day taint is being observed any taint coming in its
middle will end on the day that the first taint ends. But if the
new taint comes in the last Yama of the tenth day, it continues
for another 3 days. This is true for ten day taints only.
3. Aangeeras:
If a death taint comes in between a birth taint, or if a birth
taint comes in between a death taint, it would last till the death
taint lasts. It means that the birth taint is over only when death
taint ends.
4. Usanaa:
If a smaller (insignificant) taint merges with a long taint, the
long taint would not get over with the insignificant taint. The
long taint should fully be observed. Then only the taint would go
away.
5. Vyasa:
Yama tells that, If in between a three day death taint, a ten day
birth taint comes, the birth taint would go away along with the
death taint.
6. Shankha:
If father dies in between the ten day taint due to the death of
the mother, the taint would go away after the tenth day after
father's death. If the mother dies in between the death taint of
the father, after the ten day taint of the father's death, one and
half days taint (Bakshini Asoucha) should be observed.
7. Shada seethe:
The taint created by the death of the parents would not end by any
other taint which occurs before their death.
8. Aangeeras:
When one performs the rites from cremation and observes a ten day
taint, suppose he happens to do cremation for another, the second
taint would go away when the first taint ends. But in case of
death of parents, the full ten day taint has to be observed. These
will not be affected by any other taint.
9. Sangrahe:
When taint is being observed, if one becomes the father of the
child or happens to cremate some one else in the middle, the
second taint should be fully observed.
10. Prajapathi:
When you are observing a taint, if you become a father of a son,
since you have to do Jatha Karma, immediately taint comes to an
end and along with the first taint, the taint due to birth also
will come to an end. If the wife gives birth to a baby in between
the ten day taint due to the death of parents, our taint goes
along with the death taint. But the wife's taint goes only after
the prescribed period,
XVI. Athikratha Asoucham
(Taint after lapse of time)
1. Manu:
If you hear about the death after 10 days, there is only three
days taint after that. If you hear about it after one year, a
simple bath will remove the taint.
2. Shankha:
If you hear the news of a ten day taint after 10 days, there is
only three day taint after that. But if you hear about it after
one year a bath will suffice.
3. Vrudha Vasishta:
If you hear about a ten day taint after ten days but before three
months, you have to observe three day taint. If you hear about it,
between three months and six months, only observe for 36 hours. If
you hear about it between six months and nine months, you need to
observe only one day taint. If you hear it afterwards, a simple
bath will suffice.
If you hear about a three day taint between third and tenth day,
observe one day taint. If you hear about a Bakshini taint (One and
half day taint), after one and half days but before ten days, you
have to observe half a day taint. That is if you hear in the day
time, observe day time taint and if you hear it at night, observe
night taint. If you hear about a one day taint after wards, you
need only to take a bath,
If the wife hears about her husband's death at any time, she has
to observe ten day taint. Proof of this is the statement, "Son and
wife will always have ten days taint".
4. Sangraha:
For the death of son not invested with the sacred thread, parents
have taint even if they hear about it later. Other clan members
need not observe this taint. In case of birth taint, if you hear
it late, nothing needs to be done. But the father whenever he
hears it should take a bath.
5. Parasara:
If you hear about the death of clan members, who live outside the
country, there is no taint for one or three days. What needs to be
done is taking of a bath.
6. Brahaspathi:
If there is a big river in between or when there is a mountain in
between or if people of that place speak a different language, it
is considered as outside country.
If the son who has to perform death ceremonies lives in another
country, even if it takes one year, he has to complete the death
ceremonies. If you hear about the death of a step mother, with in
a year one has to do the death ceremonies. If one hears about it
after one year, he need to observe only a three day taint.
XVII. Jana Marana Sambhave Dina Nirnaya
(Fixing day of death or birth)
Kalpa says that if the death/birth happens in the first half of
the night (night starts after Sun set), it should be counted as
having occurred in the previous day and if it occurs in the second
half, it should be considered as having occurred in the next day.
Another view divides the night in to three parts and considers
death/birth having occurred in the previous day, if it occurs in
the first two parts of the night. However if it occurs in the
third part, it should be considered as having occurred in the next
day.
One Amsa is 10 Nazhiga (4 hours). In that we have to leave out
previous dusk for 3 nazhiga, and later dawn for the same period of
time and the remaining part as thriyama night (Night of three
yamas). In that adding the first part of the dusk, it becomes 18
Nazhigai (one Nazhigai is 24 minutes) and this is considered as
previous day.
Another view is that if death /birth happen after sun rise, till
next sun rise, it is considered as having occurred on that day.
Please follow the belief based on the family tradition.
You should not eat or drink with a person with taint. If we do,
then the taint would come to us also.
If the dead body is in the village or in the home, you are not
supposed to do any religious action (daily rituals, rituals which
happen to be done and desirable rituals). If a dead body is there
in a village with more than 400 Brahmins, there is no dosha, and
rituals can be done. If there is a street in between us and the
dead body or if it can be approached only by a different path or
if it is in a different street, rituals including worship of
Vishnu can be done. In case the body is that of the sage, Sanyasi
or Sidhas whose soul enters a different body, there is no dosha
due to the dead body.
XVIII. Asoucha Sangraham
(Summary of the different type of taints)
i. Ten day taints
1. For the death or birth in the family of clan having ten day
taint relation, we have to observe ten day taint.
2. If the male child dies after ten days or if a girl child dies
before marriage, the parents, brother and step brother have ten
day taint.
3. In case of a boy less than seven years without sacred thread or
more than seven years with the sacred thread, the members of the
clan have ten day taint.
ii. Three day taint for men
1. Maternal grand father 2. Maternal grand mother 3. Uncle 4.
Uncle's wife 5. Father in law 6. Mother in law 7. Mother's sister
8. Father's sister 9. Nephew wearing sacred thread 10. Daughter's
son with sacred thread 11. Samanodaka with sacred thread (relative
connected with water oblation beyond 7 generations) 12. Daughter
who is married 13. Sister who is married 14. Biological father in
case of adopted son 15. Biological mother in case of adopted son
16. Son who has been given in adoption 17. The son belonging to
the clan who is above 7 years and before marriage with three
generation of clan relation 19. The son of the clan who’s first
cropping (choula) has been performed before 25 months for the
death of all these people there is a three day taint.
For Samanodaka (relative connected by oblation of water to the
manes), less than seven year old son whose sacred thread ceremony
has been completed or for boy older than seven years, there is
three day taint in case of their death. For all births in case of
Samanodaka (relatives connected with water oblation) there is
three day birth taint.
iii. Bakshinyasoucha (Taint for one and half days) for men.
1. Father's sister's daughter. 2. Mother's brother's son and
daughter 3. Mother's sister's son and daughter 4. Sister's
daughter 5. Daughter of Father's brother 6. Daughter of son 7.
Daughter's daughter 8. Daughter's son 9. Son of sister who is less
than seven years and does not have sacred thread. In case of death
of all these people, men have to observe one and half days taint.
iv. One day taint for men.
1. Brother, sister and daughter of step mother 2. Daughter's of
the above three. 3. Wife's brother 4. Daughter of father's step
brother 5. Step brother's daughter. 6. Father's step sister 7.
Daughter or son of Father's step sister 8. Parents of step mother
9. Daughters of the clan within three generations who are above 25
months and below six years and not married. 10. Biological brother
in case of adopted son 11. Clan members of the biological family
12. Father in law and mother in law who do not have any other
children 13. Boys above 25 months and below six years of boys who
had not undergone first crop (Choula) belonging to paternal clan.
v. Three day taint for women
1. Brother whose sacred thread ceremony is over 2. Brother's son
whose sacred thread ceremony is over. 3. Sister's son whose sacred
thread ceremony is over 4. Mother of the other wives of husband..
Three days taint if death occurs to any of these.
vi. One and half day taint for women.
1. Father's brother. 2. Mother's sister 3. Mother's brother 4.
Father's sister 5. The children of Sno1 to four. 6. Paternal Grand
father 7. Paternal Grand mother. 8. Maternal grand parents 9.
Sister 10. Sister's daughter 11. Brother's son. Death of any of
these will entail One and half a day taint.
vii. One day taint for women.
1. Son, daughter, brother, and sister of co wife's mother. 2.
Their children 3. Father's step brother 4. Father's step sister 5.
Children of 3 and four 6. Co-wife's parents. Death of any of these
entails one day taint for ladies. The people described above are
men for whom Sacred thread has been performed and Woman who are
married. The taint for a woman does not affect her husband.
Thus ends the chapter on taints in the Samkshepa Dharma Shastras.
D. Sradha Prakaranam
[Details of Death and after Death Ceremonies]
I. Mumukshur Prayachitha vidhi (Redemptive acts to be done who is
nearing death)
II. Mumukshor Dhana Vidhi (Rules of Dhana for the dying soul)
III. Paryooshitha prayachitham (Redemptive acts for late
cremation)
IV. Karthru krama (Order of eligibility for carrying out death
ceremonies)
V. Agni nirnaya (Determination of the proper fire)
VI. Upavithadhi Niyama (Those acts which should be done with
normal wearing of sacred thread on the left shoulder)
VII. Pretha nirharana prakara (Method for carrying the corpse)
VIII. Dahana Prakaranam (Method of burning)
IX. Vapana Vidhi (Laws for shaving)
X. Dasama dina paryantha karthavyani (Rituals to be got done on
tenth day)
XI. Karthru vishaye niyama (Some rules to be followed by the man
who does rituals)
XII. Dampathyo saha mruthyu krama (Rituals when couple die
together)
XIII. Garbhini Samskara (Cremation of a woman in pregnancy)
XIV. Ekadasahe vrushothsarga (Vrushabha uthsarjana on the eleventh
day)
XV. Shodasa Sradhani (Sixteen Sradhas)
XVI. Sapindeekaranam (Merging the corpse to the manes)
XVII. Sapindye Adhikarina (People entitled to do Sapindeekarana)
XVIII. Sapinda prakara (Method of doing Sapinda)
XIX. Pinda samyojana Vidhi (Rules for merging Pinda)
XX. Sothakumbha vidhi (Method of performing Sothakumba sradha)
XXI. Abdhika Sradham (Annual ceremony of death)
XXII. Soura mase thithi dwaya sambhava anushtana krama (Procedure
when two thithis occur in the solar month)
XXIII. Sradhe thithi kaladhi niroopanam (Analysis of suitability
of Thithi to Sradham)
XXIV. Sradha kadhinaam vibhakthai pradhaganushtanam (Performance
of sradha separately by brothers)
XXV. Mala masa niroopanam (Particulars of Mala masa)
XXVI. Darsa Sradham (Amavasya Sradham/tharpanam)
XXVII. Ardhodhaya mahodhaya punya kala niroopanam (Finding out of
Ardhodhaya and mahodhaya punya kalas)
XXVIII. Ashtaka Sradha Niroopanam (Time for Ashtaka Sradha)
XXIX. Mahalaya Sradha Niroopanam (Particulars of Sradha during
Mahalaya Paksha)
XXX. Vrudhi sradha niroopanam (Sradha performed for progress -
particulars)
XXXI. Sradhe Desa kaladhi niroopanam (Differences in Sradha
according to time and place) - Some important points in Performing
Sradha
XXXII. Sradha Prasamsa (Praising Sradha )
(Though most of us are familiar with most of the day to day
rituals, few of us know anything about death related rituals and
after death ceremonies. This chapter deals with these aspects in
great detail.)
I. Mumukshur Prayachitha Vidhi
(Redemptive acts to be done by one who is nearing death)
1. Yagnavalkya:
Since due to health reasons it may not be possible to take bath,
the person dying should perform Gowna bath (Manthram Agneyam) as
much as his health permits,. These have been dealt in detail in
Ahnika Prakarana section of this book.
After taking bath he should wear the caste marks (Urdhwa pundra)
before starting the redemptive acts. It is told that even if the
person wearing Urdhwa pundra is a sinner, he would shine in the
land of Vishnu.
He who applies sacred ash and Rudraksha Garland would reach the
presence of Lord Shiva. So before death, these have to be worn. If
wise men wear them they would get special blessings.
Afterwards he has to drink the water used to wash the feet of the
God. Even If we drink minute quantity water of Ganges along with
leaf of Thulasi, Then 24 generations of our ancestors are saved
from sin.
2. Parasara:
If we are not able to do the redemptive acts, they can be got done
by other Brahmins. When you are sick or you are weak, or you are
suffering due to drought or you are suffering due to war between
kings, starving is the only redemptive act. It is also the fire
sacrifice at that time. Any act got done by other Brahmins is same
as doing it oneself.
Brahmins are the mobile waters and Saints are sacred waters. Water
of their words purifies sinners and removes their sins.
The devas agree with whatever is said by Brahmins, because a
Brahmin is the personification of the devas. His words are
considered equivalent to words from Vedas.
The man nearing death should spread Durba grass on the floor and
lie upon it. He cannot do any redemptive acts at that time. He
should ask his representative to do Dhana. Giving away a cow
(Godhana) is considered as very special and important.
He who gives way a milch cow before death is lead by that cow
along the way to Brahma's world.
Vyasa says that if one looses conscience or dies, the son who is
to do the death ceremonies or any other relation should do dhana
for the benefit of the dead person
Even if one does great sins or the nine types of sins, if he sees
a great soul, his sins would vanish. So at the time of death it is
beneficial to see great souls.
In whatever way they say "Govinda", sinners would get rid of their
sins. Those without sins would attain salvation if they utter
"Govinda'
At the time of death if one chants, "Shiva, Shiva, Shiva", then
the first chant of "Shiva" removes all his sins and grants him
salvation. The other two "Shiva" chants are necessary but give
happiness to the one who chants.
At the time of death the son should tell in the right ear, holy
Sukthas (Vedic chants), Mantras and names of Gods as well as Karna
Mantra.
When the father is dying, the son should place the head of his
father on his right lap and keep on telling in his right ears,
holy chants like Ashtakshara, Panchakshara and Rama Shadakshara.
This is the help that a son does to his father. After the soul
leaves the body, grass should be spread on the floor and the body
should be laid on it.
II. Mumukshur Dhana Vidhi
(Rules of Dhana for the dying soul)
1. Bharatha:
Hey Dharmaputhra, between the earth and the land of Yama there is
86000 Yojnas (Each yojana is 10 miles). The terrain is difficult
to travel. Sun would be very hot. There would not be shade of
trees. There would not be tank, streams and wells on the way.
There would not be villages or houses. Stones and thorns would be
strewn on the path besides burning sand. Only Dhana (charity)
would help you to cross this road. So we should do Dhana as much
as possible. This has to be done by the sons who do after death
rituals. If they do the souls will not suffer much in reaching the
land of Yama.
2. Prachetha:
Cow, land, Gingelly, gold, ghee, cloth, grains, Jaggery, Silver
and salt are called the ten dhanas, which can be given. These can
be given at time of birth as well as death. Giving them away after
death would give comfort to the departed soul in the land of the
dead. Giving them away at birth, gives long and comfortable life
to the child. For him who goes outside his country, knowledge is
his friend., for him who stays in his house wife is the friend,
for him who is sick, doctor is the friend and for him who is
dying, Dhana is the only friend.
III. Paryooshitha Prayachitham
(Redemptive acts for late cremation)
1. Gargya:
When a person dies in the day time, he should be cremated within
10 hours. If this is done it is not late. If cremation is not done
within 10 hours, the body becomes old. To cremate it, permission
has to be taken from Brahmins, do three Kruchrams (mortification),
bath the body washed with Pancha Gavya (Mixture of cow dung, cow
urine, milk, curd and ghee) and further bathed by water and later
sanctified by chanting of Pavamana Suktha. If this is not done the
entire after death ceremony is a waste.
2. Bhodhayana:
If a person dies in the day time, he should be cremated in the day
time itself. If he dies at night, he should be cremated before
9.45 PM. Afterwards cremation at night is not permitted.
3. Smruthyanthara:
If one dies before sun rise in the morning, he should be cremated
in the morning itself.. If it is not done redemptive acts should
be carried out. This redemptive act is given by Vaikanasa. So if
one dies in the morning, he should be cremated in the day time but
if one dies at night, he should be cremated before 9.45 PM. If we
do cremation in the day time for one who dies at night, we have to
perform redemptive ritual for late cremation. If one dies in Kumba
or meena rasi, he would get good after death life but his
relations will suffer. So we have to do Dhanishta Santhi for those
dying in Avittam, Chadayam, Pororattathi, Uthrattahi and Revathi.
For death during Dakshinayana, Krisha paksha, night or if death is
accompanied by vomiting or passing of stools or death happens due
to knife, we have to do Kruchram (mortification) and perform the
redemptive ritual with Homa.
4. Kruchra prathinidhi:
It has been told that we have to give away (as per our means), one
cow for Prajapathya Kruchra, two cows for Santhapana Kruchra,
three cows for Paraga Kruchram, Thaptha Kruchra and Adhi kruchra
and eight cows for Chandrayana Kruchra. (These are described in
the chapter o redemptive acts.
IV. Karthru Krama
(The order of eligibility for carrying out death ceremonies)
1. Chandrika
1000 holy periods of eclipses, 10000 vyathee padam or one lakh
Amavasyas are not equivalent to one sixteenth of a dwadasi. Three
half crores of such Dwadasi will not become equivalent to one
sixteenth of the death day of parents. This means that the death
anniversary of our parents is a very holy day. You have to do the
rituals with devotion and interest on that day.
2. Sumanthu:
The biological son should perform the rituals after death with
proper mantras and utmost devotion.
3. Jamadagni:
The son should do offering of food and water to his father.
Suppose he is not in a position to do it, he should offer fire
(cremate) and get the other rituals done by some body else.
4. Smruthyanthare
Though there are several brothers the eldest son only has to do
Navasradham, Sapindeekaranam and Shodasa sradhams. Even if the
sons have divided the property before the death of the father, the
right is only to the eldest son. If eldest son is not available
nearby, the eldest among the brothers present can undertake the
cremation and other rituals associated with it.
If a man has several wives, the eldest among all his sons has only
the right to do rituals to his father. The seniority of the wives
is not taken in to consideration here. But in case of women, her
eldest son only has the right to do cremation for her. In case of
twins, the son born second is elder. The adopted son has to do
such rites to his biological father, if he does not have sons or
grand sons to do the rituals. If after adoption a biological son
is born to the couple, only the biological son has the right..
5. Vrudha Manu:
He who is doing penance during the pregnancy of the wife, you
should not get shaved or cremate the bodies of any one except his
parents.
He can also do cremation to his elder brother and uncle, if they
do not have sons.
6. Brugu:
The Brahmachari (after sacred thread ceremony) can do the after
death rituals to his mother's father, uncle, Maternal grand mother
who does not have sons and maternal uncle's wife. This would not
be considered as breaking of the Brahmacharya vow. Even if he has
not received the sacred thread, he should do after death rituals
to his parents. If he is not capable of chanting the mantra, he
should cremate their body and authorize some body else by giving
them Durba to complete all necessary rituals. If a man is doing a
Yaga as Kartha (That is he has taken austere life for doing Yaga)
and if either his mother or father attains death and if he is the
only son, he should go and do death rituals of his parents and
come back and complete the Yaga. If the parents die in between the
marriage, he should offer Gingelly, pinda and do the cremation but
should not do, after death ceremonies
7. Marichi:
The order of preference for doing after death ceremonies for the
dead is as follows:
Son, Son's son, Son's grand son, Daughter's son, brother of the
wife, son of the brother, father, mother, daughter in law, sister,
sister's son, member of the paternal clan and those who receive
money, If the first one is not there, the subsequent one will get
the right. If during marriage of the daughter, a mantra is told
that her son would be responsible for after death ceremonies, that
son will be called Dwayamushnan. He would be from both the
paternal and maternal gothras.
8. Manu:
In the world, there is no difference between son's son and
daughter's son and so the daughter's son inherits the wealth of
those who do not have a son. So the daughter's son should be
considered as having the right to do death ceremonies of his
mother's parents.
Even if the maternal grand father does not have wealth, the
daughter's son should do the after death rights of his maternal
grand parents.
The wife is considered to have more right to do death ceremonies
of her husband than their daughter's son. The son should do death
ceremonies for his father. If he is not there, the person's wife
should do it. The next order is daughter's son, brother, brother's
son etc,
If the wife without a son dies, her husband should do death
ceremonies for her. If a daughter's son is there, he can be asked
to do it. If one person has several wives and one wife has a son,
he should do death ceremonies for all his step mothers.
V. Agni Nirnaya
(Determination of the proper fire)
1. Vrudha Manu:
The Ahithagni (fire made at that time) should be lit with other
three agnis, Anahithagni with Oupasanagni and others by
Loukikagni. (Normal fire from other sources)
2. Vasishta:
The man who dies before his wife should be created by Oupasanagni.
If the wife dies earlier than the man should be cremated by
Uthbhanagni (see next para for definition). Similarly if the wife
dies after her husband she should also be cremated by Uthbhanagni.
If the wife dies before the collection of bones from the pyre of
the husband and if fire is still there in the pyre of the husband,
the wife should be cremated in that fire. If fire is not there a
new funeral pyre should be set up.
3. Jamadagni
If a fist of Durba grass is burnt in the domestic fire and in that
fire another fist of Durbha is lit and in that fire, if another
fist of Durbha is lit, then the resulting fire is Uthbhanagni. If
head of the corpse is burnt in fire made out of paddy shell and
this fire is lit in a Durbha it is called Kapalagni.
The fire made out of the head is Kapalagni and that made with
paddy shell is called Dushagni and the fire caught in the third
fist of Durbha grass is called Uthbhanagni. The widower and widow
should be cremated in Uthabhanagni. The bachelor should be
cremated in Kapalagni. The boy who has not received sacred thread
and also an unmarried girl should be cremated in Dushagni. If the
husband takes Sanyasa and if his wife dies before him, she should
be cremated in Oupasanagni.
4. Angeeras:
If the cremation rtes cannot be performed in one's own Sutra,, it
can be done in any other Sutra. If we observe Bodhayana Suthra, we
get the same effect as if it is observed in our own Suthra.
VI. Upavithadhi Niyama
Those acts which should be done with normal wearing of sacred
thread (On the left shoulder)
Bathing, Aachamana, Pranayama, Namaskara (saluting), Pradakshina
(going round) even if it is done during a ritual of Manes
(pithrus) should be performed with Normal fashion of wearing
sacred thread.
1. Bharadwaja:
In the ritual connected with the corpse (pretha), Aachamana should
be done in the beginning and end. This is true for every ritual
for the success of the ritual. For having internal cleanliness
Pranayama should be done.
In the case of ritual with Corpse, the sacred thread should be
worn in the opposite shoulder (pracheena vidhi) When you are
carrying the corpse, it should be worn as a garland (neevithi).
This rule is meant for people who carry the corpse.
In case of Avahanam, argyam, Sankalpam, Pinda dhanam, Thilodhaka
Dhanam, Akshayam, Aasanam and Padhyam, the names and Gothra should
be definitely mentioned.
VII. Pretha Nirharana Prakarana
(Method for carrying the corpse)
1. Manu:
A Rig Vedi should cover the corpse with cut cloth and a Yajur Vedi
with a cloth that is not cut.
2. Prachetha:
The son should bathe the corpse, worship it, applied sandal paste
and make it wear flower garlands, If Ahithagni (Fire made at that
time) is used, shaving (kshouram-could also mean hair cut) should
be done. Other wise there is no need for this.
3. Vasishta
The corpse should be kept on a platform made of Athi wood facing
the sky. The corpse should not face the village or the place
below. It should have its head facing the south.
We have to walk in front of the corpse of people elder to us.
Ladies and younger people should walk behind. All people should go
with untied hair and tying the upper cloth on their waist carrying
a lighted torch. No body should be there between the corpse and
the fire which is being taken to light it.
First fire, then necessary materials. Gingelly, rice, branch of
Palasa tree, Pieces of Hiranya, Ghee vessels, Stone, sand should
be sent. This should be followed by the corpse. You should always
walk away from the village and not towards the village.
VIII. Dahana Prakaranam
(The method of burning)
1. Vyagra pada
The corpse should not be lit with down looking face, without
cloth, when it is dirty. It should not be burnt with wood not
suitable for yaga, brought by sinners and that which is spoiled by
worms as well that which is very old. Half the cloth which the
corpse wears should be burnt by torch and the other half worn to
the corpse.
2. Apasthambha
Afterwards the corpse should be kept on the funeral pyre. In the
sense organs either gold or ghee should be kept.
3. Bodhayana
Curds, ghee, Gingelly and rice should be placed in the mouth of
corpse.
4. Vasishta
Fire should not be kept on the corpse. In the Veda Corpse is
considered as that which is offered to the fire and so is should
be offered to the fire. If this is not done, nothing good will
come out of the act. So the fire should be put on the pyre.
Afterwards chant the Upasthana Mantra and the rest of the fire
should be put on the pyre. The pyre should be lit from all
directions. Please understand that the man who died will reach the
world of Brahma by this. After cremation, the cloth one wears
should be washed and the one who does the cremation should take
bath. Then he should take bath wearing cloths and this would make
him clean. That is he becomes one with a clean mind.
When going to the cremation ground, the youngest should go first
and while coming back home, the eldest should come first.
5. Usana:
If we follow the corpse or go along with his paternal clan, we
should take bath, eat food along with ghee and again take bath. If
ghee is not available, chant Gayathri 10 times and drink water.
After this Japa and Homa should not be performed for one day.
IX. Vapana Vidhi
(Laws for shaving)
Without shaving we should not do rituals with corpse. Similarly
Offer of water, rice balls and Sradha should not be done without
shaving.
If one shaves himself just before cremation, he troubles his
manes. So shaving should only be done after cremation. Immediate
shaving has to be done to the man who does the cremation. All
paternal clan members should shave themselves on the tenth day.
1. Sangraha:
Even if it is elder brother, his son, sibling or disciple, if the
cremation is done by a younger person, he should definitely shave
himself. If the cremation is done at night, after sacrificial
offering of water, Shaving should be done next day because at
night no body should shave himself.
2. Smrithi:
If the cremation is done for mother or father, whether it is a
Friday or on the tenth day or even if the cremation was done at
night, the water offering and shaving should be done then itself.
In case of others shaving has to be got done next day morning.
These bans are not applicable in case of father/mother. Sasthra
tells that even in case of parents, shaving should not be done
after two Yamas at night. But this is not applicable to son. If
the person who was cremated is younger, the elders and paternal
clan members do not have shaving.
In case of Maternal grandfather, Maternal grand mother, Father's
brother, Uncle, Elder brother, Father in law, Teacher and his
wife, Father's sister, Mother's sister and sister, even if the one
who cremates has a pregnant wife he should undergo shaving. If he
is not the one who does the cremation, the husband of a pregnant
woman should not undergo shaving. In case of elderly paternal clan
members, father in law, mother in law, elder sister, and her
husband, there is shaving in case of their death. Even if wife
dies early or even if the father and mother in law do not have
children, there is taint for one day but no shaving.
If the tenth day happens to be a Friday, the clan members have to
get shaved on the previous day. This rule is not applicable to the
son. If Sapindeekaranam is done on the 12th day to the mother and
father then shaving is not necessary, If this is done in other
times like Tripaksha, shaving has to be got done. In case of
cropping Sashti, Ashtami, Prathama, Chathurthi, Navami and
Chaturdasi are to be omitted. Monday, Thursday, Wednesday and
Friday are suitable. The shaving for the taint because of touching
the corpse should not be got done on Fridays.
X. Dasama Dina Paryantha Karthavyani
(Rituals to be got done on tenth day)
1. Akhanda darsa,
Reach the village with wet clothes and give brass vessel, cloth,
ghee, vessel full of rice as gift to a Brahmin as part of the
Prachadana Sradha. Carry new cloth, Gingelly, Durba grass, pot
take bath in the river, then chant Mantras on the river bank, do
Avahana of Pretha on the ritualistic stones, do Vasodhakam thrice,
Thilodhaka thrice, consecrate it there, do Vasodhakam thrice and
offer Pinda and Bali.
2. Vishnu
Till you have taint, water and rice ball offering should be done
to the Pretha (Corpse) The clan members and the cremator should do
Thilodhaka thrice on first day, four times on the second day, five
times on third day and so on. (Total of 75 Thilodhakas) This is
not applicable to Vasodhakam, It has to be done only thrice a day.
The Dhoti should be folded thrice and water expelled from it.
3. Prachetha:
Place the Durba facing south, sit south facing and offer the
Pindas at the door step. You have to be silent and clean before
the Pinda. The rest of the rice should be thrown in the river.
4. Smrithi
The size of the Pinda (rice ball should be that of a Bilwa fruit
in case of apthika (first annual ceremony), Parvana, Gooseberry
size in case of Gaya Sradha and Mahalaya, size of a coconut in
case of Yekodishta and Sapindeekarana and in case of other annual
ceremonies it should be of the size of a hen's egg. If the cloth
stone or the pot in which the water is being brought or the vessel
used for cooking or the man who does the ritual changes the entire
procedure from the beginning needs to be repeated, Devala says
like this. The stone in which the dead body is consecrated should
not be moved for ten days. If the stone is lost, a new stone
should be consecrated and the entire procedure repeated, If the
stone moves from the place it is consecrated then the man who does
the ritual should do three pranayamas touching it. Yekothara
Vruthi dhana depends on the number of Udhaka dhana and that many
sradhas are to be done in aama roopa (?) The nava sradhas should
be done on 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 and 11th day. Hence six nava sradhas are
done. If these nava sradhas are not done on the specified days,
they should be done on the 11th day.
5. Aapasthamba
The Asthi Sanchayana (collection of bones) should be got done on
the next day, third day, fifth day or 7th day, This should be done
in the morning time. It is recommended that it should be done
within four hours after sun rise.
6. Yoga Yagnavalkya
The son who does the cremation should deposit the bones collected
in river Ganges or Yamuna or Kaveri or river Sathadruthu or river
Saraswathi, In case of parents proper day for Asthi Sanchayana
need not be observed. In other cases it is a must. On the tenth
day because the Pretha has all its organs it gets very great
hunger. To appease this hunger several dishes should be offered as
Prabhoothabali. This has to be done before Udaka and Pinda Dhana
on the tenth day. After the Pinda Dhana, the pretha should be
removed from the consecrated stone.
7. Padathi
In case of cremation other than parents, if Darsa Sradha
(amavasya) comes within ten days, Udaka and Pinda dhana have to be
completed before it. Asthi Sanchayana should be done before
Amavasya. But in case of parents this is not applicable and the
ceremony should not be cut short but continue for ten days.
XI. Karthru Vishaye Niyama
(Some rules to be followed by the Kartha - the man who does
rituals)
People who have taint should not consume salt, pungent food, oil,
betel leaf, should not have any relation with woman nor should
sleep in a cot. In case Savagni (fire of the corpse) is put out,
the ordinary fire can be used for rituals of redemption
(prayachithahoothi).
1. If younger son does the cremation and the elder one arrives
before Sanchayana,, he should shave himself, do the Sanchayana, do
extra udaka dhanas and continue with the full cremation ritual.
But if he comes after the Sanchayana, he should do all the rituals
up to Yekodishta starting with extra udaka dhana, then observe ten
day taint and do the Sapindeekaranam in the tripaksha period.
2. If the cremation is done by some others, the son should again
do cremation and do the rituals for ten days.
3. If the cremation is done by some one else re cremation (Punar
dahanam) has to be got done.
4. If the one who is entitled to do cremation (other than son)
comes before Sanchayana, there is no re- cremation. That is rule
number 3 is applicable only in case of sons.
5. If a man who does not belong to the paternal clan does the
cremation and if the chief Kartha (who does rituals) comes before
Sanchayana, then to the man who does the cremation there is
neither taint or Udaka dhana. But if he comes after Sanchayana and
if the outsider had taken the tainted food, he has to observe ten
day taint and Udaka Dhana.
6. But if the cremation is done by brother, nephew etc who have
normal three day taint, they have to observe ten day taint and
offer Udaka Dhana, even if the Kartha comes and takes over.
7. If the chief Kartha does not come, he who does the cremation
should do all rituals up to Yekodishta. Unless this is done he
will remain tainted.
8. If the younger son does the cremation, if the eldest one comes
on the tenth day, he should shave, offer Udahaka and Pinda Bali,
Prabhoothabali, shave himself completely, perform Yekodishta on
the tenth day, and then observe ten day taint and do Avruthathyam
and Sapindeekaranam. But if the Kartha is not the son, his taint
goes away on the tenth day.
9. If the son comes after 10 days but on the eleventh day, he
should shave do Yekodishta and do the Thilodhaka rites that should
have been carried out during the first ten days, If no ritual has
been done and he comes within ten days, he should do Udahaka Dhana
for ten days after he reaches and do Yekodishta on the eleventh
day. Then he should do Sapindeekaranam in the tripaksha (45th day)
If he comes on the night of the tenth day, he should first do the
rites to be carried out for first ten days in the eleventh day
morning.
10. If the cremation has been done by an outsider and also first
day ten day ritual has been performed and if the son comes before
Sanchayana on the tenth day, he should start with Punar Dahanam
(re cremation) and do all rites up to Yekodishta. Including Udaka
dhanam He also should observe taint for next ten days. If he comes
after Sanchayana, he should observe Vrushithsarnam, Yekodishta,
observe ten day taint and also Udaka dhana.
11. If the son is abroad and either his father or mother expires
and if the rituals up to Yekodishta has been performed by an
outsider or another son, as soon as he hears about it, he should
shave, observe ten day taint, do Udaka dhanam and Sapindeekaranam.
If Sapindeekaranam has also been done, the eldest son should again
repeat the rituals up to Sapindeekaranam. If the rituals have been
carried by the elder son, the younger son need not repeat them
again.
12. if the Sapindeekaranam has been done by an outsider, if the
eldest brother is not near by, then if the younger ones share the
property of the deceased, then each of them have to do
Sapindeekaranam separately. If the wealth is not going to be
divided, only the eldest among them need to do it.
13. If the son who lives abroad hears about the death of his
father/mother only after one year, he should observe ten day taint
and do all the rituals. But Masika and Sothakumba need not be
performed; He can directly do the Apthika (first year death
anniversary ceremony). But if he hears before one year, he has to
do all rituals including Masika and Sothakumba. If the son is
younger and the rituals have already been performed by elder son,
he need not repeat them again. He needs to observe three day taint
and do Udahaka dhana.
14. If the biological son of a step mother is not nearby, the step
son has to do the rituals. If the biological son comes in the
middle, he has to complete the rituals. If he comes after
Sapindeekaranam, he has to repeat it. If you hear about the death
of a step mother within a year, ten day taint and Udaka dhana has
to be performed. If you hear afterwards only taint period need to
be observed.
15. If you hear the death of an elder brother, where rituals have
been performed within six months of his death, you have to observe
three day taint. If you hear afterwards, Bakshini taint only need
to be observed.
16. If somebody goes away some where and nothing is known about
him, after 12 years, the death ceremonies long with prithi kruthi
dahana should be done within three days. This has to be done after
doing Narayana Bali. In case of father or mother this should be
done only after 15 years. The months of Ashada, Magha
Margaseersha, Badra pada and Krishna Paksha Ekadasi or Amavasya
can be taken as the day of death and annual ceremonies performed
17. In case of Ahithagni, the taint is ten days after cremation
and in case of Anahithagni the taint is ten days from death.
18. If the person who does cremation does another cremation within
ten days, then the second taint will go away along with the first
taint. But if the cremation is being done to the parents, full ten
day taint has to be observed.
19. If father dies during the taint days of mother's death, the
sons have to observe ten day taint from the day of death of
father. But if mother dies during the taint of father's death, the
taint of mother's death would pass away after one and half days
after the ten day taint of father.
20. If mother dies first, on the eleventh day after her death
Yekodishta has to be performed for her. For the father who dies
during the taint period, again Yekodishta has to be performed ten
days after his death. But if father dies first, on the tenth day
of father's death, do Pinda dhana and Udahaka Dhana for mother and
on the eleventh day after father's death, perform Yekodishta for
father, and on the eleventh day of mother's death do Adhya Sradha
for the mother.
XII. Dampathyo Saha Mruthyu Krama
(Rituals when couple dies together)
1. Haritha
If the couple dies together or if one of them dies before the
cremation of the other, cremation has to be done together. But if
one of them died after the cremation, rituals have to be performed
separately.
2. Pithru medha sara
Hiranya Sakalam, Nagna prachadana sradham, Vasodhakam, Thilodhaka,
Pindam, Ekothara vrudhi sradham, nava sradham, Sothakumba,
Vrushith sargam, and Shodasa sradham have to be done separately.
Charukaryam, Funeral pyre, Kundam, Asthi Sanchayana and Santhi
Homam have to be done together. Yekodishta, Sapindeekaranam and
Nimithvaranam have to be done separately. Paka Homam and
Vaiswadevadhikam have to be done together. In case, the one to do
death rituals is the same and two person of the same clan die
together, depending on the relation between them, the death
rituals have to be performed
3. Haritha
In case of death together the son has to Sapindeekaranam to his
parents on the 12th day. For others he can do it on the 45th day.
XIII. Garbhini Samskara
(Cremation of a woman in pregnancy)
Bodhayana:
If a pregnant woman happens to die, take her to the cremation
ground, arrange the funeral pyre and on the west side of the pyre,
split open the stomach of the deceased chanting the mantra
"hiranyagarbha" on the left side. And also telling "Jeevathu mama
puthro Deergayuthwaya (let my son live long) ". If the child is
alive take it out, bathe it, give it milk and take it to the
village. Then pour ghee in the deceased's stomach and do
Aajyahuthi, stitch the stomach and then cremate her. Also give cow
as gift.
XIV. Ekadasahe Vrushothsarga
(Vrushabha uthsarjana on the eleventh day)
1. Vyasa
On the eleventh day with an aim of sending the dead soul to the
heaven, leave away to the public (Temple?) a bull for pleasing
Rudra and then feed Brahmins in the Sradha.
2. Vignaneswara
If a bull is not left on the eleventh day that soul remains as
Pisacha (ghost). Even if you do 100 sradhas it does not help. So
Vrushbaha uthsarjana is very important.
On the eleventh day Yekodishta Sradha has to be necessarily
performed. If it is not done, later the entire death ritual has to
be repeated.
If you do not get Brahmin for Yekodishta on the eleventh day, you
have to take hand full of Payasanna and offer it to the fire 32
times chanting "Yamayasomam". The performer should observe
silence, face the south and do the homa. If this is done, then the
Yekodishta is well done.
3. Gowthama
In the adhya Sradha the Brahmin has to be fed or at least homa
should be done in the fire. And again Brahmin has to be fed.
4. Kaladarsa
The adhya Sradha has to reach a Brahmin or fire and again offered
to a Brahmin.
XV. Shodasa Sradhani
(Sixteen Sradhas)
The sixteen Sradhas can all be done on the eleventh day. The
sapindeekarana has to be done on the 12th day.
1. Gowthama:
Due to the possible problems created by time as well as the place
that we live and also due to possibility of disease and death the
sixteen sradhas have to be performed on the eleventh day.
The adhyam (first) on the eleventh day, the 12 masikams, the
tripakshikam (forty fifth day ceremony), the shan Masika (the
sixth month ceremony) and the one performed before the annual
ceremony are the sixteen sradhas. When we are doing
Sapindeekaranam on the 12th day, on the eleventh day these sixteen
sradhas are to be abridged and performed as Yekodishta and one
rice ball (pinda) given. Then for each of the 16 sradhas pinda
dhana has to be performed. In the fire Prethahuthi is done once
and all the other fifteen are combined and performed once. After
Sapindeekaranam, again the monthly and other Sradhas have
necessarily be done. If you do no get Brahmins for the sixteen
sradhas it can be done in the Aama form also.
2. Galava:
Within day or two from the Oona day, Oona Masika has to be
performed. This is true for Unapthikam also. The first oonam
should be performed within 3 days of the 27th day of death. The
tripakshikam should be performed within 5 days of the 40th day.
The oona shan Masika has to be performed within ten days of the
170th day. The oona apthika has to be performed within 15 days of
the 340th day. Oona masikams have to be performed on odd days. It
is good if the day to be performed is selected properly. If good
events take place in the house, the oonams can be done after
Akarshana (?). But it should not be redone after the good event.
3. Paitinasi:
The sixteen sradhas should be done before Sapindeekaranam. The
sradhas which are performed after Sapindeekarana should be
performed like Pratyapthika sradha (annual ceremonies). They
should be carried out in the parvana method. The Sradha done aimed
at three ancestors viz pitha (father), pithamaha (grand father)
and prapithamaha (great grand father) is termed as Parvana.
4. Yama:
For the Sanyasis the son should not perform Yekodishta and
sapindeekarana. On the eleventh day Parvana Sradha should be
performed. On the twelfth day Narayana Bali has to be performed.
XVI. Sapindeekaranam
(Merging the corpse to the manes)
1. Aswalayana
The Sapindeekarana can be done on the 12th day or after one year.
2. Bodhayana
The sapindeekarana can be performed on the 12th day, 11th month,
6th month ore 4th month.
If the parents have only one son and he does the cremation, it
would be better if sapindeekarana for parents is performed on the
12th day. This is because there is no guarantee for the son's
life.
If the doer is one who is entitled to do cremation and if the dead
one was one entitled for cremation and in case of mother and
father Sapindeekaranam should be performed on the 12th day.
Even if both of them are not entitled to do cremation, the
sapindeekarana can be done on the 12th day. It could be done later
also. But due to convention it is normally performed on the 12th
day.
The man who carries out death ceremonies, is not entitled to
perform any good rituals without doing Sapindeekaranam.
3. Sridhara
Sapindeekaranam can be performed from 11th to 16th day. It could
be done on 17th day also.
4. Garga
If it is not possible for some reason to do Sapindeekaranam on the
proper day, it could be performed in the Panchami, Ashtami,
Amavasya or Ekadasi in the Krishna Paksha.
5. Smrithi rathna
Sapindeekaranam can be performed on Amavasya, on the thithi when
the body expired or in Mahalaya Paksha. In such cases, the
unsuitability of Thithi and day need not be seen. If
Sapindeekaranam is done after completion of one year the 16
sradhas have to be redone.
6. Gobhila
If the does is Ahithagni and the dead one is Anahithagni, then the
Sapindeekaranam should be done on the 12th day
XVII. Sapindye Adhikarina
(People entitled to do Sapindeekarana)
The Sapindeekarana should be either done by own son or adopted
son. If one of them are there it is improper for others to do it.
1. Sankha
The son has to do sapindeekarana for his father. If son is not
there, the grand son or wife or brother in that order are entitled
to do it. In case of death of the woman, if son is not there, her
husband is entitled to do Sapindeekarana for her. Without
bothering for the age, if man or woman is married Sapindeekarana
is to be done for them
2. Vrudha Vasishta
In case of Brahmachari, eunuchs, sinners, bad woman, Nastikas
(atheists) and Sanyasis, Narayana bali has to be done. Upakurvana
Brahmachari is entitled to sapindeekarana. In case a Brahmachari
dies before the age of 12, he is entitled only to Narayana Bali.
XVIII. Sapinda Prakara
(Method of doing Sapinda)
1. Brauhad Vishnu
Sapindeekaranam has to be done on the 12th day after the death of
the father. For the father to come out of the corpse state
(pretha) and joining with his forefathers as Sapinda and attaining
equality, son should adopt Parvana method for manes and use the
Yekodishta method in case of father, This Sapindeekarana is a
mixture of Parvana as well as Yekodishta.
2. Brahma
In case the father has died but the grand father is alive, he
should do parvana Sradha for three generations above great grand
father and merge the pinda for father along with them.
In the case of a wife who does not have sons. The husband should
do sapindeekarana to his wife.
3. Smrithi
Two sradhas should be started and Sapindeekarana has to be done.
Parvana has to be done first and Pretha Varna Sradha using the
Yekodishta method should then be done. Combination of these two is
Sapindeekarana. In Sapindeekarana sradha, first Kala agamaka
Viswedeva, then pithrus and in the end Pretha should be recognized
and called.
In all parvana sradhas a Brahmin should be recognized as the form
of Vishnu. Devala and Chandilya say that any Sradha where Vishnu
is not recognized would not lead to any purpose.
XIX. Pinda Samyojana Vidhi
(Rules for merging Pinda)
1. Pithru medha sara
Make 7 Pindas using the cooked rice remaining after performing
Homa. If two people die together 8 Pindas should be made. If many
people are going to be made Sapinda then that many Pindas have to
be made. These should be kept on three rows of Durba (with tip
pointing towards the south) in the south of the fire. Then we have
to face south and with left knee kept on the floor keep on the
middle row of the spread Durba grasses chanting the mantra
"Marjayantham mama pithu pithra", on the column on the west side
chanting the mantra "Marjayantham Mama mathara" and then on the
column of the south do Marjanam. and In the same order keep the
six Pindas and chanting Yeschatwamanu and Yachatwamanu clean below
the Durba with whatever is remaining in hand, then chanting
Marjayantham mama Pitha Pretha (in case of father) or Marjayantham
mama matha pretha pour water and say .... Gothra ..... Sarman,
pretha yetham pindam upanishta and offer the Pinda and in case of
mother ...... gothre ........ naamni prethe, offer the Pinda.
After being permitted by Brahmins chanting the two mantras "Samano
mantra" and
"Samaneva". The argya for pretha should be merged with Argya for
Pithrus and the merged pretha Pinda should be divided in to three,
kept before the pinda of father etc, perform the Gift of cow for
crossing Vaitharani and get permission and using mantras
"Madhumathi", Sangachathwam, Samano manthran and Samaneeva merge
the three parts of pretha Pinda in to one using the two stretched
hands. After merging pretha panda like this chanting the two
manthras "Yesamana" and Yesajatha", again do marjanam as mentioned
earlier. In case of Tripindism there would be four pandas.
2. Sankha
In case of Sapindeekaranam of mother the sons should merge the
pinda for mother with that of paternal grand mother Similar action
should be done in case for Sapindeekaranam of maternal grand
parents.
3. Smruthi
If you do not know the Gothra tell as Kashyapa Gothra. This is
because Veda says that all beings originated from Kashyapa. If we
do not know the name of the father, tell "pithivishath". If grand
father's name is known tell "antharikshasath" and if great grand
father's name is not known say "Divishath".
4. Jamadagni
The river Vaitharani has bad smelling blood flowing in it, is
black in colour and tides are extremely fast. It also contains
bones and hair in it. This is on the way to the land of Yama. If
Cow is given as gift during sapindeekarana, the pithrus cross this
river easily. So gifting of cow is important during
sapindeekarana. The sapindeekarana of the parents have to be done
by the eldest son. That which is performed with the permission of
all using the undivided wealth, is considered as having been done
by everybody. The Sapindeekaranam of the parents should not be
done by all brothers.
5. Sayanee
For the mother, father maternal grand mother, maternal grand
father and eldest brother, the Sapindeekaranam should be performed
in Oupasana fire. The eldest brother is equivalent to the father.
The Sapindeekaranam to the paternal grand parents also should be
done using Oupasana fire. For a Brahmachari and a widower, the
Sapindeekaranam should be done on Loukika fire. This is the
opinion of sage Apasthamba.
If Oupasana fire is far off then some people feel that the homa
can be performed in hand itself. This is not correct. The homa
done with the sacred thread worn over right shoulder should be
done only in fire. The remnants of the Homa should be kept in the
meals plate of Brahmins, meditating on Lord Vishnu. The one who
does not have a wife or the one whose wife is very far away or the
one who is a Brahmachari can do Sradha in Agni but should use only
Loukika fire. If wife is having periods, after she has taken
purificatory bath, we have to raise fire afresh and do
Sapindeekarana. Even if the fire is there, it is not proper to do
it before her bath as there is sufficient time period given to do
Sapindeekaranam. That is, it should not be done during the unclean
period. If there are several brothers and if the eldest one is not
maintaining Oupasana fire, the next one who maintains Oupasana
fire should do the Sapindeekaranam. If there is only one son and
if he does not maintain Oupasana fire, then he can do it in
Loukika fire.If for the one who is to do the Sapindeekaranam, wife
is not amenable, he can wait up to one year for her and after her
coming do the Sapindeekaranam. If this is not possible the next
brother who maintains Oupasana fire can be asked to do it. If
there is only one son and his wife does not come within a year, he
can make some one represent his wife and do the Sapindeekaranam.
If the wife is amenable doing Sapindeekaranam leaving her out is a
useless exercise. He does not have the right to do
Sapindeekaranam.
XX. Sothakumbha Vidhi
(Method of performing Sothakumba sradha)
That Sradha where Viswadeva and Vishnu are not considered and done
aiming at three men is done with Udhakumbha and is called
Sothakumba sradha. In this case there are no special rules to be
followed by the performer or the Brahmin who comes to do it. The
performer can do Sothakumba Sradham after Brahma Yagna and regular
worship. The first one should be performed on the twelfth day and
then it should be done daily for one year.
1. Kathyayana
If it is not possible to do it, it should be at least done once in
a month. It could be done during Darsa or before Masika Sradham.
When you are not able to do it in a particular time, it can be
done along with the next. People may question that once the Pretha
status is removed on the 12th day by doing Sapindeekaranam, there
is no heat generated by Janitha Kshudragni. It is said that even
though Pretha status is removed, in the mind there will be fear of
pretha status for one year. After Sapindeekarana and before
Apthika (annual ceremony) Darsa, Mahalaya and Manvadhi Sradha
should not be performed. But Tharpana can be done. Ashtaka Sradha
also could be done. The death taint while performing death
ceremonies is for 12 days. So during these 12 days Worship of God,
Pithrus, Homa Dhana, and Japa should not be done.
XXI. Abdhika Sradham
(Annual ceremony of death)
1. Dharma Sudha nidhi
The Abdhika should be done in the same Thithi and in the same
month and same Paksha in which the death occurred.
2. Narada
The Abdhika should be done in the same Thithi in which death
occurred. Among the Thithi, Vara (day) and Nakshatra, thithi is
the most important.
3. Chandrika
The month-paksha -thithi combination in which death occurred is
observed as the death anniversary day every year. This is the
advice of elders. The time between Amavasya (darsa) to another
Amavasya is the lunar month. Depending on the solar movement, the
solar month also is defined. This is called Soura month. The lunar
month is classified as Darsantham and Poorni mantham. This has
been decided based on caste difference and regional differences.
South of Narmada river Darsantha Chandra masa is observed and to
the north of the river Poornimantha is observed. In case of Vrutha
(penance) Chandra masa (lunar month) is considered superior. But
in case of Sradha, it should not be considered. This is because
due to occurrence of Athimasa, Lunar month is not stable. The
solar month is stable. So for death related functions solar month
is used,
The Dakshinayana and Utharayana are determined based on the
movement of the Sun.
For observing death related ceremonies stick to either lunar or
solar month. This should not be changed in the middle. This has to
be chosen as per the practice of the elders of our family. Those
who use lunar month, should observe it in Athimasa thithi or Nija
masa thithi.
XXII. Soura Mase Thithi Dwaya Sambhava Anushtana Krama
(Procedure when two thithis occur in the solar month)
1. Sangraha
If two thithis come in the solar month Apthika, Masikams and
Pratyapthika should be observed in the later Thithi. If Grahana or
Sankramana comes in the later Thithi, it becomes bad and then the
Sradha should be performed in the first Thithi.
If both thithis happen to be bad, if Sankramana occurs in the
Aparahna (see XXIII-2), the former Thidhi should be chosen. If not
the later Thithi can be chosen. If in both the Aparahnas are bad,
then that thithi which has more relation with the month should be
chosen.
If both parents die in the same thithi and if Sankramana comes
after Aparahna, we can perform sradham. If both thithis are
faultless, the later one should be chosen.
2. Samvartha
If in a solar month Mrutha thithi is not available then sradha can
be performed in the previous month but not in the later month. If
we do sorrow will come to us. Sradha should be performed annually
in the thithi in which the person dies. If he does not do, he
would take birth as Chandala in the next one crore births. So even
if the danger comes to our life, we have to perform Sradha.
XXIII. Sradhe Thithi Kaladhi Niroopanam
(Analysis of suitability of Thithi to Sradham)
1. Gowthama
In the thithi which extends to the afternoon, Yekodishta should be
performed. In thithis which are in the Aparahna, parvana sradha
should be performed.
2. Vyasa
Three muhurtha or Six Nazhigais or 144 minutes is considered as
morning. The next three muhurtha is called Sangava kala. The next
three muhurthas are termed as Madhyahna period. The next three
muhurthas is called Aparahna and the next three is called Sayahna.
Sayahna is not suitable for rituals. In the day time there are 15
muhurthas. Each Muhurtha is 2 Nazhigai or 48 minutes. These 15
muhurthas are called Chaithra, Salaghara, Savithra, Jayantha,
Gandharva, Kuthabha, Rouhina, Virincha, Vijaya, Nairutha,
Mahendra, Varuna and Bodha.
3. Kala Nirnayakara
The week days are divided in to two, three and four parts, But
Vedas recognize only the split in to five parts. So that is the
most superior. The eighth muhurtha n the day time is Kuthabha.
Kuthabha and the four muhurthas following it is the proper time
for doing Sradha. So the time between 15 Nazhigai *each of 24
minutes) to 24th Nazhigai is the proper time for Sradha. Aparahna
in the period from 19 Nazhigai to 24. That is the most suitable
for Sradha. (Approximately after 12 noon)
The periods starting from Kuthabha kala till Sayahna is the most
suitable period for Sradha.
4. Bodhayana
If the previous and following days are such that thithi spreads in
Aparahna, then Sradha has to be performed in the Aparahna thithi.
If the second one is a kshaya thithi and the first one is an
Aparahna thithi, the sradha should be performed in the first
thithi. If the second one is an Aparahna thithi and the first one
is a vrudhi thithi, Sradha should be performed in Aparahna Thidhi.
If in both days thithi is not found in Aparahna, the Sradha should
be performed in the first thithi.
5. Vasishta
In rituals for Pithrus, the thidhi which is connected to the
asthamana (setting of sun) is considered as poorna (complete).
XXIV. Sradha Kadhinaam Vibhakthai Pradhaganushtanam
(Performance of sradha separately by brothers)
If brothers divide the father's wealth or if they eke out a living
by money earned by themselves, then such brothers should perform
Darsa (Amavasya), Apthika (First annual ceremony) and Pratyapthika
(usual Sradham) separately. If the widow who does not have sons is
in periods, she should perform the Sradha after the fifth day.Even
if we are in deep trouble, the first annual Sradha should not be
performed in the Aama Roopa. If it is not possible to perform it
in the Thidhi, it could be performed, in the Amavasya or Krishna
Ekadasi. If these come within a taint period, it could be
performed after the taint period. In the sradha for father the
importance is for father, grand father and great grand father.
Similarly in the mother's sradha the importance is for mother,
grand mother and great grand mother.
1. Vishnu
Apasthamba prescribes homa and Pinda for father, grand father and
great grand father in the Sradha for mother. But Arghya and Varana
are done for the mother's side also.
In Yekodishta, Sapindeekarana, Masika and Apthika, The Tharpana
with Gingelly is not performed But in case of other Sradhas
including Mahalaya Sradha, Tharpana has to be done.
XXV. Mala Masa Niroopanam
(Particulars of Mala masa)
From the Shukla Paksha Prathama (that Prathama following Amavasya)
till the next Amavasya is the lunar month. If the first day of
solar month does not occur within a lunar month, that lunar month
is called Mala Masa. This month is not suitable for any rituals.
If two Sankramana (solar month first) comes in a lunar month it is
called Kshaya masa. This also is not suitable for rituals.
The Kshaya masa is also called Amhaspathi. This is very rare. The
lunar month in which is Kshaya ends suddenly and the next month
will come.
A solar moth with two Amavasya is called Samsarpaka masa. The
first month of the athi masa which is samsarpaka is not suitable
for any rituals. The next month is suitable. Similarly in case an
athimasa is a Kshaya masa, the first month is suitable and the
second month is not.
1. Vrudha Vasishta
The inauguration of streams, well and tank, soma yaga and great
Dhanas should not be performed in the mala masa.
2. Kala Nirnaya
Jatha Karma, Pumsavana, Seemantha and Vruthas can also be
performed in mala masa. The death ceremonies also can be
performed.
XXVI. Darsa Sradham
(Amavasya Sradham/tharpanam)
1. Vishnu Purana
Oh King, he who does Darsa sradha every month in the Krishna
Paksha as well as Amavasya satisfies the entire world. One whose
father is no more, should definitely do Darsa sradham. If a
Brahmin does not perform Darsa Sradham on Amavasya, he has to
perform redemption.
In the Darsa sradha we have to choose father, grand father, great
grand father as well as mother, grand mother and great grand
mother. There is no separate aim for the maternal grand parents in
darsa sradha. In Darsa, Ashtaka, Sankramana, vyatheepatha and
Grahana (eclipse), we have to take bath, do Tharpana with Gingelly
and then do Darsa Sradha. All Pithru rituals have to be done in
Aparahna. If Amavasya sets before performance of Sradha, then it
is not suitable. Leave out that day where less amavasya is there
in Aparahna and perform it on the day when it is more in Aparahna.
2. Narada
If Amavasya is spread in Aparahna of two days, the first thithi
has to be chosen for fading and next for increase.
XXVII. Ardhodhaya Mahodhaya Punya Kala Niroopanam
(Finding out of Ardhodhaya and mahodhaya punya kalas)
1. Samgrahe
If in the month of Pushya or Magha, the Vyathee patha ends in the
first part of Amavasya, or middle period of Sravana star
(thiruonam) or during sun rise or on Sunday, that period is known
as Ardhodhaya punya kala If the first four occurs on a Monday, it
is Mahodhaya punya kala (?)
If Amavasya occurs on a Monday, Sapthami thidhi occurs on a
Sunday, Chathurthi occurs on Tuesday and Ashtami on Wednesday
these days are equivalent to the solar eclipse.